Cherish this Holiday Season

It seems every year Thanksgiving and Christmas come faster and faster. I think the older we get, the more used to the length of a year we become. Kind of like the return drive on a long trip often seems shorter than the initial drive. Our minds tell us that the trip was so long, and being creatures of pessimism, we anticipate the return trip to be longer than it really is.

Such as with life. How often, students, do you put off that paper because you have an entire week to get it done? Or husbands, how many months go by before we actually fix the furnace? Just look at how big your kids are, if you want me to get to the point.

I recently read a little play by Thornton Wilder called Our Town. It is a very haunting account of this very discussion. The Pulitzer prize winning play is simple enough on the surface, but if one is really paying attention, one will be almost terrified of what Wilder is trying to tell us in his play.

And that is simply: Life is fleeting. Enjoy it now while you can.

One needs also to read through Lamentations or almost any other wisdom book of the Bible to get a clue that this is no joke. Time flies, and may I add: whether you’re having fun or not.

So as you gather around the Thanksgiving table with your family – whether you like them or not – I want to challenge you to really take the time to relax, breathe, and live a little in the life you’ve been given. Enjoy your families, regardless of the circumstances. One day Uncle Fred or Grandma or Dad aren’t going to be sitting at that seat, and you’ll miss them.

If you feel that the holiday season has become mundane, soak it in anyway, because one day, you’ll look back on it all and miss it. And if you do this, your attitude will change.

I dreaded taking the dogs out to do their business four to five times a day. But after reading Our Town, I stopped and reflected on the fact that one day they’ll be too old to go down the stairs by themselves and I’ll have to carry them, recalling these days – these days – of their mobile youth. So I stopped pestering them to “Go potty!” and just let them take their time and allow them to enjoy the cool air and bark at the squirrels.

If you’re like me and hate shopping, go with your spouse anyway this Christmas season, and have fun. Don’t throw a fit, or pout, because one day, you’ll regret soiling would-be sweet memories. Take in every moment – the good and mundane – fix the bad ones, and don’t continue to leave behind regrets of lost memories.

I’ll leave you now with a chilling passage from the third and final act of Our Town. Emily, the young, hopeful bride from the preceding act has died and is in the grave observing a very dull day in her early life as Scrooge does in his own harrowing visions.

Emily - I can’t. I can’t go on. It goes so fast. We don’t have time to look at one another.

She breaks down sobbing…

Emily (cont.) - I didn’t realize. So all that was going on and we never noticed. Take me back – up the hill – to my grave. But first: Wait! One more look. Good-by, Good-by, world. Good-by, Grover’s Corners… Mama and Papa. Good-by to the clocks ticking… and Mama’s sunflowers. And food and coffee. And new-ironed dresses and hot baths… and sleeping and waking up. Oh, earth, you’re too wonderful for anybody to realize you.

She looks toward the stage manager and asks abruptly, through her tears:

Do any human beings ever realize life while they live it? – every, every minute?

Stage Manager - No.

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9 Responses to Cherish this Holiday Season

  1. kenstewart says:

    Good use of the play OUR TOWN to make a point. I read it many, many years ago, in high school, I think maybe, but had forgotten it, so went to Wikipedia to read their review. I was saddened to read the final statement there: “The Stage Manager concludes the play, reflecting on the probable lack of life beyond Earth, and wishes the audience a good night.” Why is that? Where do we get the idea that we–limited as we are–have the ability to really discern something of that nature in a way that allows us to proclaim it as Truth? This play won a Pulitzer–and evidently that is one indicator that such proclamations exemplify much of the tenor of the that this past century. (I think of respected Carl Sagan and Stephen Hawking making similar pronouncements.)
    I for one choose to see life as hopeful, as blessed, and I am thankful for the opportunity to believe in a vibrant and joyful afterlife, as well as an incredible here-and-now-life. I choose to listen to the testimony of those like Don Piper (90 MINUTES IN HEAVEN) who have valid testimony to this effect.

  2. irishsignora says:

    Thank you for ther reminder of how many precious things we kick into the dust. Peace be with you. — Kelly

  3. that was beautiful. thank you.

  4. I remember reading this play- a very powerful one indeed. Yes, we do seem to have a hard time living in the moment an enjoying it! It reminds me of the teachings of Buddhism. When we’re washing the dishes, not to think of the list of things we need to do, but to think of washing the dishes as we wash them. Truly to live and think in the moment so we don’t miss a thing.

    • My mind still drifts when I am doing things I ought to enjoy. I’m learning that it is a discipline and takes practice to remain in the moment. It is also a very biblical teaching as Jesus commands us to not worry about tomorrow and Paul assures us to forget what is in the past and strive forward.

  5. dianeroark says:

    Thank you for the reminder to relax and enjoy our families and be thankful! I hope you had a great Thanksgiving. Blessings Always, Diane Roark http://www.recipesforourdailybread.com Visit anytime!

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